If it seems like you just can’t seem to get anywhere in your dating or relationship life, it’s because you may not have enough “equity” to be able to get where you want to go.
This is part of an idea I call your “relational bank account.”
And in order to get where you want to go, you’ve got to make enough “deposits” into that account to be able to afford what you want when it comes to dating and relationships.
I know that the metaphor of a bank and money may sound complicated to some people, but I think I’ve done a good job of making it easy to understand in this podcast.
In this podcast I also mentioned the topic of “good” and “bad” vulnerability. This is a topic that I’ve discussed in this previous podcast episode over here.