LT014 – “Good” vs “Bad” Vulnerability

This week, I’m going to address a common mistake that people make when it comes to sharing their feelings with someone they are dating or attracted to.

There’s a myth that “we all want what we can’t have” or “whoever cares the least controls the relationship” that inspires people to pretend to be disinterested or aloof.

Unfortunately, this is all born out of anxiety and insecurity and results in a lot of “mind games” that actually ruin the chance for connection.

This could really all be avoided if people understood the difference between “good” and “bad” vulnerability.

Believe it or not, it’s not “bad” or “weak” to share how you feel with someone.

In fact, it can even strengthen the connection between the two of you.

But you have to know the difference between emotional confessions that will help your case and hurt your case.

That’s what I’m explaining this week.

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